Our brains are "elastic!"
Which means we can literally, physically, change our minds.
When we move our emotions from anger to compassion or love, scientists are finding our brains not only light up in MRI scans, but actually create a change in physiology. Sort of like growing a healthy brain - it's possible at any age.
In short, we can actually find happiness through experiencing feelings like love and compassion; they can actually replace negative and self-defeating emotions. This opens us up to new ways of perceiving and dealing with the same problems we've always dealt with in our lives that lead to more positive outcomes.
It's not a way to dismiss or deny the issues, it just gives us more tools to work with.
The article even includes a way to help you move from stuck in negativity to positive processing.
Here's the story, reported on oprah.com.