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Tuesday, February 20, 2007

Languages of Love

What is your language of love?

As I've said many times, love is not a feeling, it's an action. How do you show your love? How do you like to be shown that someone cares for/about and loves you?

Thanks to my webmaster John's blog, here's a love languages test you can take to figure out what makes you smile, tingle and believe that someone cares deeply about you?

You can have your partner, friend or family member take the test as well to make sure you're covering all your bases when it comes to showing him or her how much you love them?

I'm divided equally between physical touch and words of affirmation; right beneath them are acts of service (helping out with tasks or ordinary things I must do throughout the day) and quality time spent together.

When it comes to gifts? Zip. Nada. Nothing.

The best thing someone can give me is an appointment with a massage therapist or reflexologist. Or perhaps a gift certificate.

It's the time and talking - communication - that makes the difference to me.

The test choices let me see what others may prefer to my "love language" preferences in order to let others know I care; that I love them and how much.

It's a short test and I'm sure not scientific, but at least it's an indicator of how many ways people like to be told they are loved!


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